No WhiteWash!

Elder care is something that is very dear to me.  I have been caring for my 97 year old dad and this leaves me very little time for blogging lately.

Caring for Dad is one of the hardest jobs that I have ever had, but the rewards are there knowing that Dad is happy living out his last days in an loving environment.

I must admit it is hard physically such as lifting, lack of sleep, etc., but it is even harder to see a parent that was your “Superhero” as a young boy become so helpless that he is dependent upon you for his every need.

Dad is very hard of hearing, almost blind, and has his share of medical problems for his age.  I do realize that without proper care, he is helpless and will surely die.  Taking care of the elderly is much harder than caring for a newborn.  A big difference is caring for the elderly is that they may be set in their ways, they are bigger and weigh more.

Please get involved and join the “Fight Against Elder Abuse” You can get more information at the following link. www.ncea.aoa.gov.

National Center on Elder Abuse Invites You to
“Join Us in the Fight Against Elder Abuse”

5th Annual World Elder Abuse Awareness Day, June 15th, 2010

Elder abuse is an under recognized problem with devastating and even life threatening consequences.

Every day, headlines throughout the U.S. paint a grim picture of seniors who have been abused, neglected, and exploited, often by people they trust the most. Abusers may be spouses, family members, personal acquaintances, or professionals in positions of trust; or opportunistic strangers who prey on the vulnerable.

How big is the problem? No one knows for certain because relatively few cases are identified. Research indicates that more than one in ten elder may experience some type of abuse, but only one in five cases or fewer are reported. This means that very few seniors who have been abused get the help they need.

One thing is for certain: elder abuse can happen to any older individual – your neighbor, your loved

What is Elder Abuse? In general, elder abuse refers to intentional or neglectful acts by a caregiver or “trusted” individual that lead to, or may lead to, harm of a vulnerable elder. Physical abuse; neglect; emotional or psychological abuse; verbal abuse and threats; financial abuse and exploitation; sexual abuse; and abandonment are considered forms of elder abuse. In many states, self‐neglect is also considered mistreatment.

Who is at Risk?
Elder abuse can occur anywhere – in the home, in nursing homes, or other institutions. It affects seniors across all socio‐economic groups, cultures, and races. Based on available information, women and “older” elders are more likely to be victimized. Dementia is a significant risk factor. Mental health and substance abuse issues ‐ of both abusers and victims ‐ are risk factors.

What Should I Do if I Suspect Elder Abuse?

Report Your Concerns.

Remember: Most cases of elder abuse go undetected. Don’t assume that someone has already reported a suspicious situation.

To report suspected abuse in the community, contact your local adult protective services agency. For state reporting numbers, visit the NCEA website at www.ncea.aoa.gov or call the Eldercare Locator at 1‐800‐677‐1116.

If you or someone you know is in a life threatening situation or immediate danger, contact 911 or the local police or sheriff.

To report suspected abuse in a nursing home or long‐term care facility, contact your state specific agency. To find the listing, visit the Long‐Term Care Ombudsman website: http://www.ltcombudsman.org/ombudsman

Types of Elder Abuse

• Physical abuse ‐ Use of force to threaten or physically injure a vulnerable elder
• Emotional abuse ‐ Verbal attacks, threats, rejection, isolation, or belittling acts that cause or could cause mental anguish, pain, or distress to a senior
• Sexual abuse ‐ Sexual contact that is forced, tricked, threatened, or otherwise coerced upon a vulnerable elder, including anyone who is unable to grant consent
• Exploitation ‐ Theft, fraud, misuse or neglect of authority, and use of undue influence as a lever to gain control over an older person’s money or property
• Neglect ‐ A caregiver’s failure or refusal to provide for a vulnerable elder’s safety, physical, or emotional needs
• Abandonment ‐ Desertion of a frail or vulnerable elder by anyone with a duty of care
• Self‐neglect ‐ An inability to understand the consequences of one’s own actions or inaction, which leads to, or may lead to, harm or endangerment

  Remember: You do not need to prove that abuse is occurring; it is up to the professionals to investigate the suspicions.

Warning Signs

• Physical Abuse – Slap marks, unexplained bruises, most pressure marks, and certain types of burns or blisters, such as cigarette burns
• Neglect – Pressure ulcers, filth, lack of medical care, malnutrition or dehydration
• Emotional Abuse – Withdrawal from normal activities, unexplained changes in alertness, or other unusual behavioral changes
• Sexual Abuse – Bruises around the breasts or genital area and unexplained sexually transmitted diseases
• Financial Abuse/Exploitation – Sudden change in finances and accounts, altered wills and trusts, unusual bank withdrawals, checks written as “loans” or “gifts,” and loss of property

What Can I Do to Prevent Elder Abuse?

• Report suspected mistreatment to your local adult protective services agency or law enforcement. Although a situation may have already been investigated, if you believe circumstances are getting worse, continue to speak out.
• Keep in contact – Talk with your older friends, neighbors, and relatives. Maintaining communication will help decrease isolation, a risk factor for mistreatment. It will also give them a chance to talk about any problems they may be experiencing.
• Be aware of the possibility of abuse – Look around and take note of what may be happening with your older neighbors and acquaintances. Do they seem lately to be withdrawn, nervous, fearful, sad, or anxious, especially around certain people, when they have not seemed so in the past?
• Contact your local Area Agency on Aging office to identify local programs and sources of support, such as Meals on Wheels. These programs help elders to maintain health, well-being, and independence – a good defense against abuse.
• Volunteer – There are many local opportunities to become involved in programs that provide assistance and support for seniors.
• World Elder Abuse Awareness Day - Elder abuse is a global issue. Contact your local aging services organizations to find out how your community will observe World Day. Help to raise awareness by talking about the issue.
• Learn more about the issue – Visit the National Center on Elder Abuse website at www.ncea.aoa.gov.